Monthly Archives: October 2018

Make a Good Impression on the First Date

Prepare yourself. Before the date you should do something that relaxes you: sports, reading, yoga singing your favorite song – whatever makes you happy and happy. Wash yourself, use a deodorant, brush your teeth, comb your hair and do not forget to put fresh clothes on you!

Choose a place that will be special for your date. If you do not know what he / she likes, then ask. You want him / her to be happy to go to a place that is special to him / her.

If it is a date in a festive setting, then have a small welcome gift for him / her. A small box of chocolates or a single rose for example. Of course it would be better if you knew what flowers or sweets your date preferred. But never try a single rose at a casual first date – it might be too exaggerated, as such things express passionate love. Instead, you can try it with a homemade little thing, a small stuffed animal or something else that makes you look extraordinary. Never give anything big at a first date. The best gift you can give is your company.

If you are a man, pay the food; if you are a girl, then offer to pay the food; your offer will be refused, offer to pay only for you. If this is not the case, accept the invitation. He just tries to be nice. If you are gay / lesbian, just ask how he / she likes it and then explain how you want to manage it, and make a compromise. In many homosexual couples, this problem occurs because everyone wants to pay their own bill. It would be best if you were to change or pay for yourself. If you were the one who suggested the date, it is generally assumed that you are offering to pay for you and your date.

Make your date compliments. Compliments are your best friend when it comes to data. But do not exaggerate or be dishonest. Do not try to be kitschy either. Choose one or more of his qualities to make your date honest compliments.

Do something unusual and inexpensive, but you have invested ideas and time. It should not be great. Take a walk through your neighborhood or offer him / her a homemade cocoa, show him / her your favorite constellation or something else interesting, which will remind you of you.

Finish the evening with a kiss if possible. As you bring your date home, conduct the conversation on something romantic, like the moon, the stars, or the like. Pay attention to the looks and body language of your date to find out when the right time has come

 

Assess a Long Distance Relationship

The Challenges

  • If you are an insecure, anxious, needy or jealous person, then a long distance relationship is likely not for you. Until you learn to love yourself enough to not worry about what your partner is doing, and to take loving care of your own feelings, it will likely be very stressful for you.
  • If you are an extroverted person who regenerates with your partner and with others, not seeing your partner on a daily basis might be very hard for you, especially if you are a stay-at-home parent or you work at a job where you don’t have much interaction with others.
  • If you are a working mother or father, or you have a number of young children, it may be quite challenging for you to not have the help of your partner.
  • If consistent, daily in-person connection and affection is important to you, then a long distance lifestyle would not work well for you.

The Positives

  • If you are a more introverted person who needs a lot of time alone to regenerate, it might work well for you to not be with a partner on a daily basis.
  • If you or your partner are both very busy, achievement-oriented people, getting together on weekends or even once a month for a weekend might be a lifestyle that works for you.
  • If both you and your partner love your time alone, then a long distance relationship might be ideal for you.
  • If the two of you love each other but you often trigger each other in ways that lead to distance or conflict, then not seeing each other as much might be just the thing that saves your relationship.
  • If you love to travel and you are a very social person who makes friends wherever you go, and your partner is a quieter stay-at-home person, you might find that you each get your needs met through a long distance relationship.
  • If you tend to be a person who gives yourself up a lot and has a fear of engulfment, you might feel much safer in a long distance relationship.

Sometimes people who live in different cities meet one another and thoroughly enjoy their relationship – as long as they live apart. But fears of engulfment might get triggered if they make plans to live together.

Tips to Be a Perfect Boyfriend

LISTEN CAREFULLY
No woman can feel valued if her opinions and demands are not heeded. If it is your girlfriend, her opinions should have a lot of weight for you. Although you do not agree at all with regard to the way of thinking, you have to allow her to at least expose your points of view. Otherwise, she will feel underappreciated, she will think you do not take her seriously, and she will probably begin to feel uncomfortable with you. No one likes to be with a person who does not have you in the slightest regard or who does not care to know what makes you happy.

TRY TO BE INTERESTING
If there are issues that you are passionate about, but she is bored by it then do not make them the center of the conversation. Do not talk about yourself and what you like all the time. Try to have ambitious goals in life, to improve as a person, or to have minimum aspirations. It’s hard to stay in love with a man who just wants to get the weekend to go beers with the cronies. It is difficult, and will require an effort on your part, but the more passion you have for your goals and the harder you fight for them. This is what will make you appear more interesting in their eyes. And if you are not ambitious or fighter, at least try to do different things and experience new things.

GET INVOLVED IN YOUR CIRCLE OF FRIENDS
When you start a relationship, everyone believes they have the right to say, and the worst thing is that not only do they do it, but they can also influence how it develops. If you want yours to be solid, it is much better to count on her friends as an ally, and not as an enemy. If you integrate them into your circle and make good friends with the people she appreciates then this might be enough be a good boyfriend for her. Also, in difficult times you will know that these friends will not encourage her to break up with you.

BEHAVE LIKE A GENTLEMAN
Even if you think that giving up the door or opening the door to a woman is out of fashion, they love that kind of details. Chivalry is a scarce value, and that is why it is so appreciated, so that every time you behave this way with your girlfriend, you are sending a signal of respect that. This will serve to consolidate your relationship and you will be a perfect boyfriend in her eyes. Do not forget that for a woman, such acts that we may consider unimportant, are far more revealing than any promise you can make.

GIFT HER SOMETHING
You do not have to shop for gifts each day, but there are few days you can buy her a present. Buy her a sweet that she loves, take her to the movies or dinner. On any special day you can do such deeds to be a perfect boyfriend for your girlfriend. Send her a WhatsApp to worry about her health when she is not well. Do everything that serves to show that she is of great importance in your life. Your efforts to make her feel special will make you the perfect boyfriend like the ones that women dream.

Ways to Impress Women

Following are the top five ways to impress the real women:

  1. Just be yourself – Instead of imitating someone, it is better to be just the way you are. You don’t need to do a lot of things to impress us; all you need to do is be who you are. We like men who know how to express their emotions and put their innermost feelings into words. Unless you do that, you can never have the right kind of a woman walking by your side.
  2. Don’t be too hard on yourself – The worst thing that most of the men do is strive hard to impress women. Don’t do that – all you’ve got to do is keep it simple and learn how to respect us and you would gain our attention. Defend us, if you are given the opportunity and if your stand makes a different in our lives, and be with us, when we need you.
  3. Don’t try to impress us – I know a lot of men do this – they try to impress the ladies with their style, fashion and a lot of such materialistic things. Instead of playing the impression game, which does not last for long, try to be casual and keep it low. If a woman falls in love with you for your style, remember, she has to see you in your informal outfits at home in future, when you both plan to settle down together.
  4. Express yourself in bed – Let’s face it – most of the women now know what they want from their men. They are open and now believe in communicating about what they want in bed. If you have a woman in your life and you want to sustain her, you have surely got to be good in bed.
  5. Keep her satisfied – I don’t say that intimacy is the only thing between two lovers, but it is obviously one of the most important things that allow two people to maintain love between each other. Keep her relaxed and satisfied in bed and see the glow on her face.

Holiday Destinations for Single Men

  • Medellin, Colombia

The terrain surrounding this ancient city is one of the most diverse in Colombia and a great vacation for singles. It has tall mountain peaks, jungle highlands and lowlands, deep gorges and canyons, and amazingly hypnotic farming areas. Every type of terrain offers the opportunity for extreme guided excursions. Places like the Abbura Valley are unmatched in the world for seasonal color. Temesis offers endurance hikes and waterfall rappelling only minutes from the city. Of course, there are thousands of private places like Los Katios National Park, where the jungle meets a crystal clear pool, perhaps with a cave or hot spring. This is the ideal spot for a single guy to entertain a lovely local girl, or fellow traveler in a dream-like setting.

  • Rio De Janeiro, Brazil

Party Mecca for single men is Carnival, and Rio is its home base. Almost all year long, people in this city throw back the curtains for tourists. This is especially true for single guys who are extremely comfortable with leaving their self-loathing behind the moment the step off the plane. Festa (Portuguese for feast/celebration), is ingrained in Brazilian culture. In the ancient world, all roads led to Rome. In Rio, all roads lead to the beach, or a world class nightclub. There are the classics like Ipanema and the Copacabana, but other venues are becoming popular, especially if you have a favorite beach activity. Praia Vermelha is a surf hub, and Praia da Barra da Tijuca is famous for motor sports and parasailing. After working on the tan,go for dancing, drinks, and booty-watching at clubs like Leviano with its massive mosh pit, and Casa Rosa for laser-lit, edgy interaction. Rio might well be the perfect place for singles to holiday.

  • Bangkok, Thailand

Men from all over the world find Bangkok to be a fascinating study in opposites. There’s no argument that adult entertainment in all forms is a major draw, but local laws and customs must be respected at all times. It’s absolutely possible to find any type of entertainment that you want, but it must be enjoyed on the culture’s terms. Bangkok is like a single traveller’s fantasy theme park, but definitely ahem, lives up to its name. The people of Bangkok are exotic creatures in familiar westernized, U.S. and Euro-style packages. They are very accommodating to the expectations of single male tourists, and have the inviting currency exchange rate to boot. Restaurants like Xing Fu satisfy a guy’s stomach. Fitness and outdoor gyms help a guy retain his muscle tone while away from home. Elephant riding in the Khoa Yi National Park provides opportunities for selfies to make friends jealous. Adult clubs, lounges and hotel concierge like will certainly where out a single guy’s eyes. As a single guy wrestles with the notion of settling-down in life, he can get the “wildness” out in this huge bachelor party of a destination.

  • Ibiza, Spain

Ibiza is an island getaway steeped in old world culture including religion, sport, and cuisine. The deepest blue imaginable comes from an interface with the Mediterranean Sea, and the deepest brown is found in the eyes, hair and skin of some of Europe’s most alluring women making it the dream holiday for singles. A network of inviting villages each have town centers emerging from a catholic chapel like the Capilla de la Virgen de Lourdes, or a school or monastery. As far as social activities, anything having to do with playing on the sand or in the water is available. This area is very family friendly, so singles fun remains extremely intimate and low key. Single men should try offering a lonely local girl a glass of wine followed by a conversation on art, and a paddle board session afterward.

  • Cancun, Mexico

This resort city is obviously popular with the college Spring Break crowd for reasons that also appeal to any single man. Every dinner plate, public transport, cabana, fishing charter, beach chair rental, and bottle of Jose Cuervo is affordable. This means single guys in every stage of life can find a way to have fun. Spend a few days hiking in the Yucatan inland camping near the Chichen Itza Pyramid, then join a beach rave with some new Mexican friends for the rest of the trip.

Valentine’s Day

With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, you must be surprised how all the so-in-love-couples have already started showering their love for each other. Valentine’s Day can be a nightmare if you have picked up the wrong gift and it can be a sweet dream if you are picking up the right gift. But if you are single, this is a great time to pamper yourself. Being single is not about being sad on this day of love, rather you can choose to enjoy yourself.

Benefits of Being Single on this Beautiful Day

We all love being in relationships and want to stay with a person who love, respect and care for us. But being single does not mean it is the end of the world. Being single on Valentine’s Day, come with a lot of benefits that gives you a chance to cheer up. So without wasting time, let’s get to know more about the benefits that all the single people enjoy.

  • Save a Lot of Money

There is nothing bad about being single, until unless you start doubting yourself. Everyone who is in a relationship is on their toes to find a perfect gift for their partner. On this day, the cost of chocolates, flowers and soft toys almost double in most stores. Anything that is pink, white or red is highly expensive. So all those single people out there, you will be actually happy that you are not a part of this expensive mess.

  • Pink is Not Your Color

If you are someone who does not like the color pink, this is a great chance to escape this color. Valentine’s Day often synonymous with pink and red color as these are regarded as the color of love. Take a look around you, which is the most prominent shade that you can see? Being single gives you a chance to opt out of this situation. You just need to be happy with yourself and pick up a color that you love.

  • You Can Flirt With Others

This is one of the most amazing benefits that most of the singles are happy to enjoy and it gets extra special on this day. You are not the only single person around as you will find others to company you. So go on and try your luck. Don’t sit in a corner and frown upon your single status, rather choose to keep your options open and enjoy your freedom.

  • Be Yourself & Relish the Celebrations

Valentine’s Day also gives you a chance to dress down yet enjoy the day. You can be yourself without worrying about dressing up to impress your partner. You can arrange a pajama party and watch your favorite movie or go out with a group of friends and indulge in shopping. Don’t miss out the chance to love yourself on this day.